My friend he's got a car.......
I dated a guy who drove a Citi golf in high school. The car was called "Itsotsi" the driver's name.....well it was Solo. It was 2007 I was in grade 10 at the time, he was in matric, so no I wasn't any one's Sugar Baby. for most of the time I was with this guy I hated the fact that he had a car because then it looked liked I'm with him because he has this car. Each time the subject would come up I'd tell them: "jongapha zikhona imoto ekhaya, andithanga nqa"
The subject of dating a man who has a car is common among students, we stumble across it when our male colleagues(other students) tell us how they know they don't stand a chance with us because they don't have cars. They just assume that we all want a man who has a car. but that's not always the case. Yes its convenient when the man you're with has a car, but having a car isn't a requirement, a man HAS to have personality, he HAS to know how to make me laugh, he doesn't have to have wheels. I would've dated Solo even if he didn't have a car. Yeah I said it.
Maybe I like things, or maybe I'm an early bloomer, but because ndijolile nomfana onemoto ndabona ba akho kwanto ecasba at the time. There's really nothing to it, but the girl at res who gets picked up by different cars, will she get over it? will she even want to work hard to get her own car? I worry, don't you?
I don't think there's been a generation as lost as ours, akhothemba for thina kulate. Nonetheless Big Up to those who still got their morals intact. by "having your morals intact" I don't mean those 1990s kids who don't have a baby. who's to say those that don't have babies aren't sleeping with married men. I'm just hollaring at the few of our generation abezphethe kakuhle, they know who they are. the thing about them they keep to themselves, you'll never hear them going on about how well behaved they are. abananto isemadodeni aneMoto. I know of a few myself.
Pink love
Siyamtanda.......
